FAQ

WHAT KINDS OF PEOPLE DO YOU SEE?I'M NOT KINKY AT ALL, IS THAT OKAY?CAN I REQUEST A SPECIFIC OUTFIT?HOW LONG SHOULD I BOOK FOR?DO YOU SEE COUPLES?WHAT KIND OF GIFTS DO YOU LIKE BEST?CAN YOU BRING A FRIEND?WHAT KINDS OF FETISHES ARE YOU INTO?I PREFER A DOMINANT ROLE. DO YOU EVER SUBMIT?WHAT SAFETY PRECAUTIONS ARE YOU TAKING DURING THE CURRENT PANDEMIC?

WHAT KINDS OF PEOPLE DO YOU SEE?

I entertain a diverse clientele and do not discriminate based on race, gender identity, sexual orientation, religious beliefs, size, or ability. While I generally prefer more mature suitors, I accept clients age 21 or older, so long as they are respectful and pass screening.

My favorite clients are those who crave the unusual and value more than simply the superficial: people who are as interested in mental stimulation as they are in physical stimulation.

I'M NOT KINKY AT ALL, IS THAT OKAY?

Of course! My Mars is in Pisces, which means my sexuality is mutable and flows like water. My love of kink stems more from my love of passion and of giving pleasure, whatever form that pleasure takes, than it does from any specific fetish, or fetishes, of mine. I love to get weird with other kinksters, and there's nothing quite like leading curious newbies into the world of fetish, but I have no interest in forcing anyone into experiences they don't want. After all, it's not fun unless everybody's having fun.

CAN I REQUEST A SPECIFIC OUTFIT?

Of course! While my default is always nice lingerie, I accommodate outfit requests to the best of my ability for appointments of 90 minutes or longer. If I don't own the pieces you would like to see me in, you're very welcome to bring them for me, and I'm happy to provide my sizes and/or measurements, whichever is most relevant, upon request.

Please note that extremely complicated or specialized pieces may require an additional tip.

HOW LONG SHOULD I BOOK FOR?

Obviously, that choice is ultimately yours to make, but I recommend ninety minutes to two hours, especially for a first-time meeting. An hour sounds like a long time in theory, but in practice it tends to make bookings feel rushed. If a wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am experience is what you're looking for, an hour is perfect, but if you're like me and prefer to take the time to really luxuriate in the experience and linger a while in the afterglow, an hour won't do that for you.

DO YOU SEE COUPLES?

Yes! I love playing with couples, whether they're first-timers, or have welcomed guest stars into their bed many times before!

If you and your partner would like to meet with me, I do require both parties to submit their information for screening, and an additional 50% engagement fee will apply.

In the interests of good consent practices, I will need to speak with both parties before I accept any first-time bookings with couples.

WHAT KINDS OF GIFTS DO YOU LIKE BEST?

While my interests are too eclectic for me to be considered picky, I am extremely particular in my tastes.

My practical Virgo rising means that tips are my favorite type of gift, but if you prefer to offer something a bit more personal, you can find my LuxyList profile HERE, and for those looking for a more serious offering, my book wish list can be found HERE.

If you're still feeling unsure of what to get me, you can't go wrong with a gift card. Sephora and Ulta gift cards will never go unused, but if you really want to make my day, a gift card for BLICK is the way to do it. If you're very lucky, I may even thank you with an original drawing.

Gift cards can be sent to RubyBellChicago@gmail.com.

CAN YOU BRING A FRIEND?

Absolutely! Sharing is caring, and there is absolutely nothing I love more than sharing you with a friend (or two!).

Ask me about my favorite play partners in your booking inquiry!

Please note, I require a minimum of 90 minutes for duo bookings and ask that if there is any discrepancy in rates, it be corrected up to match whichever provider's rate is higher.

WHAT KINDS OF FETISHES ARE YOU INTO?

The answer to that question is so long and complicated that I would have to build a whole separate website, complete with an itemized index, in order to answer it, and even then I probably would have only scratched the surface.

The short answer is that I am a service top, which means that while I am most comfortable in a dominant role, I am more invested in the enjoyment of the person submitting to me than I am in any specific action or scenario. To put it simply, I love to spank people who love to be spanked, but spanking someone who doesn't enjoy it leaves me absolutely cold, and the same can be said for most any kinky scenario.

If you're interested in incorporating some kink into your GFE, please be clear about your interests, since "whatever you're into" is such a broad category that it could be disastrous for both of us if I took that at face value.

Those who are interested in a more straightforward power exchange can find my fetish-specific content HERE.

I PREFER A DOMINANT ROLE. DO YOU EVER SUBMIT?

No. If you are interested in taking a more dominant role, we're unlikely to be a good fit, but I wish you luck in your search for a provider who aligns better with your needs.

WHAT SAFETY PRECAUTIONS ARE YOU TAKING IN THE CURRENT PANDEMIC?

As many as I can, with the understanding that some level of calculated risk is inherent in almost anything.

Unlike many people, I am not interested in pretending the pandemic is over. I do not meet unvaccinated suitors, continue to wear a mask in public places, and avoid large crowds as much as possible. I have been fully vaccinated since April 19, 2021, I received my first booster on October 23, 2021, and my covalent booster on October 9, 2022. Since the extent to which vaccination prevents the spread of COVID-19 is not complete, I get tested monthly and also before and after meeting with new suitors.

I have also received my first Monkeypox vaccine as of July 28, 2022, and plan to receive the second shot as soon as they become available to those of us without underlying health conditions.